In order for a man to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic setting with candles. It can happen anywhere, anytime. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, a walk in the woods, or ordinary conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is aroused? " - each girl will confidently answer that this is noticeable by the erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to own a woman betrays a man's gaze, facial expression, body movements. Speech can only convey information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will reveal the real feelings and condition of an excited man.
To understand that a man is excited, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is aroused is to look at his pants just below the waist, or better yet, to touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the moment of the influx of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the blood pressure, which allows the organ to change shape and increase in size.
There are times when, with emotional sexual arousal, an erection does not occur. It is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological distress or stress.
Non-verbal signals
There are several non-verbal bodily signals that speak better than any word about a man's sexual state.
- During the conversation, the guy involuntarily begins to move closer to the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. Then a light touch of the hands and feet will follow. This gesture will not result in active action, it will be almost invisible. But that's how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But it turns out that circumstances don't allow it, and he tries to occupy his hands: buttoning and unbuttoning his collar, fiddling with a tie, twisting a button, smoothing and ruffling his hair, putting on his jacket. With enough excitement, the young man wants his partner to know it. A man can get excited when he touches his hand or other parts of the body, straightens the lady's hair, seeks a mutual gaze, while literally leaning close to him. Therefore, do not be surprised when a seemingly calm man suddenly begins to actively help out of the car or to serve a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way of touching the object that interests you. When the sexual arousal arrives, the guy automatically starts to caress and to spin in his hands an object which has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Whether it is a pen, a glass, etc. It is no longer a signal, but a decisive call.
Courtship stage
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, he will certainly denote it by his behavior. If the meeting is in a restaurant, then he will fill the glass with wine, offer a snack, and help sit in a chair and get up. He will do all this not only through a good education, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle - to have an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This expression of concern suggests that the young man is cooking breakfast together.
Man poses
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the internal toggle switch of the Female Heart Conqueror goes to the "alpha male" position. And here begin movements that will speak about the interest of a man: a quick pull of the abdomen, an alignment of the back (a hint of good physical shape), a turn of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising thelegs . Such a gesture, so to speak, suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, in front of the subject of his adoration, the guy tries to appear in a favorable light. He sits up, tucks in his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes the signs of emerging awakening can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray the excitement. And touching or licking lips clearly hints at the sexual connotations of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, widened pupils, parted lips, slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- The slightly dilated nostrils seem to pick up the scent of the female, indicating obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Blush visible on the cheeks.
- Touch the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these areas, the guy tries to mask reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When excited, the skin of the face becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is possessed by passion, he loses control of his gaze and his speech. With a blurry, blushing and paling gaze, even the most sane guy begins to wear such nonsense that a girl can doubt his suitability. It's simple - at that point, information is processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an excited state will also be the diversion of the topic of the conversation into intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when he discusses everyday and everyday things.
Every man is excited by the visual image. So that a woman does not have to watch her erection all the time and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of burgeoning excitement, it is worth learning how to interest the man andto attract his attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice - during love games do not turn off the light, because a young man, not seeing a girl, will not be able to get excited enough, and she will not know whether he is ready forsexual exploits.